The Real Rebellion

The real rebellion? Become who you truly want to be.

Not the version of you that would seem most impressive to your neighbours.
Not the version that will give your parents peace of mind.
Become the version of yourself that delights you even if it disappoints others.
Become the version of yourself that makes your body come alive and remember that existence can be full of pleasure.
Become the version of yourself that will be able to die in peace knowing that you chose yourself and you chose your life.

Because it’s easy to forget that you have a choice.
A thousand silent agreements pull us toward the shape we think we’re supposed to be.
But what if your real work isn’t to become palatable, impressive, or explainable—
What if your real work is to become honest?

To recognize the moment your own longing rises and actually move toward it.
To notice when you’re folding yourself up and choose to come back to your full shape.
To let freedom—not fear—be what shapes you.
You don’t need to earn the right to choose yourself.
You just need to remember that living as you are is more than allowed—it’s sacred.